13 Rules You Need to Know to Have a Successful Work-Life Balance

13 Rules You Need to Know to Have a SuccessfulWork-Life BalanceA career is bedrngnishing if not a series of learning curvesas a student, as a new worker, as a new employee, as an employee with new responsibilities. No matter how many years youve been working, or how far youve gotten in your field, theres always plenty to learn. (Dont believe the hype about old dogs and new tricks.) But not all of those lessons need to be learned the hard way Here are 12 lessons to keep in mind as you move through your career. googletag.cmd.push(function() googletag.display(div-gpt-ad-1467144145037-0) ) 1. Happiness is as important as any other parte of your career.Okay, maybe its slightly less important than having a paycheckhaving a roof over ones head and lifes basic necessities do outweigh fruchtwein things. But otherwise, life is definitely too short to stay in a job that makes you totally miserable. If you feel uncomfortable with what youre asked to do, or have a terrible boss, or cant stand yo ur work environmentthose are all major red flags that you should be doing something else, or at least somewhere else.2. Mistakes are not fatal.If youre a heart surgeon or an airline pilot, then yes, there are mora important stakes here. But for most of us, mistakes happen, and then we move on. Thats not to say there are no consequencesthere usually are. But sometimes things will just go wrong at work, and all you can do is work on overcoming them and move on.3. No job is worth your health.If youre so stressed out that youre not eating, or wake up every night at 4 a.m. after having the same stress nightmare about your inbox, then thats not a sustainable career plan. If youre sick and miserable, youre not going to perform at your best. Then youre even more sick and miserableand on and on. That is not a cycle that will help you reach any of your career goals.4. Be open to new opportunities.Even if youre relatively content in your job, or arent interested in a job hunt right now, dont c lose yourself off to other opportunities. Keep your networking relationships current, and make sure your resume is updated periodically to reflect your current experience and skills, because you just never know when an opportunity might come along.5. Dont sweat the everyday things.This is especially important if youre still starting out in your career. Things like setting up meetings, making presentations, sending an email to a group of peoplethese can seem like daunting tasks, fraught with all kinds of room for public mistakes. But really, theyre just tasks. Do as good a job as you can, and move on. If you make a mistake, learn from it and make sure you apply that the next time.6. Dont be a lone wolf.Ultimately, your career is about you. But without team members or colleagues helping you along the way (even if its just doing their own jobs so you can do theirs), youre not going to make a ton of progress. Plus, you never know what you can learn from others. Its important to make con nections with the people you see and work with every day.7. You control your destiny.Business writer Francisco Marconi sees this as a variation on youre on your own, but I prefer to think of it is each of us being our own best advocate. You set your goals, you decide whats right for you, and you are the one who gets to make bottom-line decisions about your career. If you just drift along, letting everyone else define your career, you can end up in a spot where youre unhappy about your job, or regretful of chances you didnt take. So make sure that youre setting goals that will make you feel fulfilled, and do everything you can to meet those milestones along the way.8. Failure is not the end.It certainly doesnt feel great to fall short of expectations (yours or others), but sometimes failure is what you need to either a) teach a valuable lesson about how youre doing things or b) helping you realize that you should be doing something else. Some of the most successful people have failed , and rather than let that define their careers, they took the painful lesson and moved forward. Even if youre fired, its not necessarily the death of your career. Theres always something to be learned in failure, which you can then apply toward being more successful in your career.9. Cultivate outside interests.If you find yourself working long hours, sacrificing personal time to answer emails after hours, and basically living and breathing your job, thats a shortcut to burnout. Outside of work, set aside time for hobbies and interests. Doing things that are creative, or give you an outlet, can actually make you a better worker. You could be building creative or problem solving skills that might very well come in handy at work at some point. Or it might just relax you, and give your brain some down time so that you can come back to work happier and more refreshed, and ready to tackle the issues of the day.10. Find a de-stressing method that works for you.Whether its five minutes of desk yoga, or basic meditation exercises, you will need a way to calm workday stresses at some point. Even if you love your job with a passion, its important to have coping mechanisms in place for when things dont go 100% well, or when days are extra busy.11. Move outside your zone sometimes.Doing things that are new, or which youre not very good at (yet) can be scary. Its much easier to keep doing what you know, and improving at things youre already familiar with. But what happens if the job youre really good at doing is eliminated, or you find out that you need new skills to move forward in your career? Its important to branch out and be good at different things, even if you dont plan to use them. For example, if youre great at writing emails or explaining things in writing, but lousy at presenting, sign up for a public speaking class. Target those weak areas so that you can convert them into a strength.12. Disconnect sometimes.Put the phone down. Shut off the iPad. Set up some s creen-free time with your favorite people. parte of the reason people are more stressed than ever is that were attached (often quite literally) to our devices, letting work encroach on down time. Sometimes you need to take the active step of eliminating these distractions, and that requires saying no to technology every so often. It can also help at work as well, if you set an email-and-phone-free hour to work on a project thats been lagging, or you have a meeting where no ones multitasking on their phone or tablet while you talk.13. Never stop building your network.Meeting people in your field, or following influential people on social media, is one of the most important things you can do for long-term career health. You never know when opportunities might come through these folks, or when information you learned from them can come in handy. Plus, its nice to have a support network, whether its personal or professional. Think of it as professional gardening sometimes it can be tedi ous to water and fertilize your plants (if youre not green-thumb-inclined, like Im not), but if you stick with it you have grown something that you can continue to appreciate and enjoy.If there are other lessons youve learned along the way, please share away Wed love to hear whats worked for you.